At first glance the title of this article may persuade you to believe that the author is a man. Not so.
Without realising it, this writer had absorbed and acted in accordance to prejudices that went against the gender to which she belonged. This article tells you the story of how she came to finally understand and rid herself of such self-destructive attitudes that had been for a long time a strain both on her own self-worth, but also on her relationships with loved ones.