I am rather fond of opinion pieces. Opinions offer no certainty. They are more likely to engender a multitude of questions rather than the opposite, and yet there is an intrinsic freedom to these flighty expressions of views and feelings. We all have them, and in exploring uncertainty, armed with some degree of experience and oftentimes incomplete knowledge, we find the courage to draw the veil and let others sift through our treasure trove of conclusions in the hope of finding kindred spirits or perhaps in order to test the strength of our convictions.
Since opinions always fall short of absolute conviction, they also allow space for communication. There will be those who will agree and those who will challenge our views. And yet by the very virtue of open dialogue, all parties are enriched, if only by glimpsing a world of possibility hitherto unknown.
“We may have our private opinions but why should they be a bar to the meeting of hearts?” – Mahatma Gandhi
I initiated the Let’s Talk Opinion series several months ago as a means of engaging with issues that are important to other bloggers and in doing so I hoped that we may journey together to discover – if not answers – at least new ways of questioning the world.
The first post of the series, titled You Will Be Offended asked you to consider “where do we draw the line between opinion, self-censorship and free speech in the blogosphere?” as well as establishing what I hope to achieve with these posts and what I do not. Whether you have been keeping up with the series or are new to ShardsOfSilence, I hope you will enjoy taking a peek at the articles that have faired best so far. Here they come!
#1 Drunk Sex / RAPED This November piece, in conversation with Sifting Reality, made it to the top of the list. Does regret in hind-sight play a role in reporting intoxication-related sexual assaults? This author begs to differ.
#2 You Are Not White Enough! “There’s no man in this world who will reject you because of your unbleached Bermuda Triangle.” This anti-fairness advocacy piece is a humorous rant against the racist vagina police. In conversation with Jezebel.
#3 Men vs Women | Crossing the Divide adds another doze of humour to the question of gender difference. By all accounts, having failed to fit nicely into what OM, my interlocutor for this piece, describes as “typical” female behaviour, and afraid that I may well be facing an identity crisis as a result, I relied on that oh-so-British love of subtext to fashion a tongue-in-cheek reply.
#4 Get Naked. Be Art. I am certain that this will not be the first, nor the last article that questions the intent behind nudity in the music industry and beyond. luna luna asked the reader to consider the divide between art and marketing ploys: between instances when nudity is empowering and disarming, and when it is just a gimmick, aimed at increasing sales. This article, although by no means definitive, is my attempt at an answer.
#5 BABY ON BOARD | Discrimination This post considered the issue of discrimination in the workplace in reply to Quinn, who claimed that offering any special consideration to working parents constitutes “blatant discrimination – “family” vs. “individual””. Gloves were off for this one!
I hope you enjoy revisiting these posts. If they are new to you, then I hope you won’t shy away from sharing your opinion. I am certain that at least one of the above topics will be to your liking. Nonetheless, should you be left searching for just the right topic for you, tune in tomorrow for the next set of Let’s Talk Opinion favourites.
Let’sTalk Opinion posts engage with issues that are important to other bloggers, connecting with others on matters close to their heart. If you like a topic and would like to contribute, please feel free to add to the comment box, reblog, share, email or message me on Twitter @shardsofsilence.
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It is a well debating post where we can have good discussion but still there is no opinion why ?
between 🙂 i wanted to say hello .. its been a while we shared a word 🙂
That is a good question. Certain topics will always encourage more opinionated responses than others. It is not always easy to know in advance which will and which will not. I suppose it can also be a matter of timing: there are always topics trending on social media, but that is not to say that we ought to always fall in line in order to express an opinion or develop good dialogue.
Thank you for your comment. Hope all is well.
🙂 Are people afraid of discussing such topics which can raise more questions and opinions ? I think this is the reason.
and yes i all is well .. i was just on a unwanted break 😛 .. ( wasn’t have my laptop)
Hoping best for you and for your loved ones.
I am not sure about being afraid, but there is always a risk when it comes to expressing opinions. I’ve always aimed to make shards-of-silence a place where opinions are welcome, whether they differ from my own or not.
Hope the break was beneficial even if unwanted and that you are back rejuvenated and ready to write some more.
Thank you for your kind wishes and all the best to you and your loved ones in turn.
All great pieces, thanks Vic. Was able to catch up on some older ones I’d missed. 🙂
I am pleased you liked them, Lee-Anne. I hope to be able to add to their number soon. Inspiration usually comes when I least expect it.
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